WAYS OF SEEING & RELATIONSHIPS

Something came through recently that I wanted to share — and it’s about how we see relationships.

So often, we’re encouraged (sometimes subtly, sometimes overtly) to see things from someone else’s perspective — especially online. We’re scrolling, listening, researching, and taking in information that often comes through their lens, shaped by their experiences and beliefs. And we don’t always realise we’re doing it.

But when we take on other people’s ways of seeing, we can easily lose touch with what we really believe. We might begin to think those ideas are our own — even if they don’t feel quite right or relevant for us.

It’s emotional clutter. And we carry it into our relationships.

We grow up absorbing the beliefs of our parents, of the culture around us, of voices we admire — about how relationships “should” be, how men or women “should” behave, what love is supposed to look like. But if we never take the time to notice what we’ve taken on, we risk living through someone else’s filter… and forgetting what we actually want.

So this is just a gentle invitation:

To pause.
To notice what ideas you're carrying about love, about relationships, about yourself.
To ask — are these really mine? Or did I take them on without realising?

Because your own way of seeing matters.
And the more connected you are to that, the more your relationships can reflect the truth of who you are.

Love,

Charlotte x

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